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A free, printable exercise for two. Thirty minutes, one pen each — and no talking until you're both finished.
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Most couples have never written down what their marriage is built on. Not because they don't love each other — because nobody ever asked them to.
Five steps. One page. One evening.
- Write alone, seven minutes
Finish the sentence as many times as you can. No editing, no reading over each other's shoulder.
- Star the five that feel most true
Out of everything you wrote, the five you'd stand behind.
- Read them aloud to each other
Alternating, one at a time, without responding.
- Compare
What you both wrote without knowing it, what surprised you, what you want to push back on.
- Choose three to five together
Sign them, and keep the page.
I built this for my own marriage. If the two of you do it, I'd like to know how it went — not what you wrote, just where you got stuck and what went well. Reply to the email it comes from.
— Clark, married 23 years, building Troth with my wife Carrie.
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